There’s a grapevine in your organization or on your team for a reason. You know the grapevine, right? It’s that informal undercurrent of what people are (or aren’t really) saying in hushed tones to others. You know your organization’s grapevine is alive and well when you regularly hear folks start their questions or comments to you or others with “I heard through the grapevine that….”
This grapevine is one well-informed vine fruit. I mean, really, the grapevine seems to have so many well-informed sources, doesn’t it? Sources in the know. Sources that must be somehow invisibly sitting in on executive team meetings and private conversations. Want to know the secret, hidden, Illuminati-fueled truth about your organization? Find the grapevine.
Not so excited about the grapevine? Well, I have good news, and I have bad news. Bad news first: there’s always going to be a grapevine. Good news: it’s as strong or as anemic as you make it.
You see, the grapevine is strongest when communication and trust are the weakest. The flip side of the coin, of course, is that when communication and trust are strongest, the grapevine is weakest. I mean, think about it–often folks who start their sentence with “I heard through the grapevine” often then say or ask about some of the most outside-the-realm-of-possibility stuff; yet since they heard it through the (not really) trustworthy grapevine, they’ll repeat it. Often with a straight face! And no matter how many times you tell someone that what they heard through the grapevine isn’t true, they’ll continue clinging to it. Why? You can be pretty sure there are communication and/or trust issues within the team.
So as you look around your team, if the grapevine is alive, well, and growing all over everything, you can know you need to be really digging into your team’s communication and trust issues.
I heard it on the grapevine – Marvin Gaye
Grapevine is most active among smokers.
I am always amazed at people who are in senior or executive positions and have absolutely no regard for confidential information. Should I really know why someone was let go? Or some other personal information on another employee.
The worst I’ve seen is a VP level person who is friends with a middle manager (who doesn’t directly report to her) and the two chatter back and forth regularly about the goings on. Very unprofessional, but then, professional behavior isn’t always in the company culture.
Matt, I sooooo agree with you. Lack of communication can be deadly to a corporate culture. People will ‘assume’ all kinds of things. My least favorite grapevine is the passive-aggresive grapevine. It’s out there, I have worked with them before. Happy to say the grapevine I deal with now is small and not well rooted. These grapes are better for wine/whine. – lol. Thanks for sharing.